7 Reasons Why You Should Never Dumb Yourself Down For A Man!
As much ambitious as him? Oh, you are scaring him away. Refusing a job offer because he doesn't like it? Proof that you love him. Nodding at something you don't believe in but oh well, since he said it, its all you have to agree on for the day. With all this you have got all of it under control? Uh-huh!
There is a breed of women who go around fluttering their eyes and twirling their hair, doing all sorts of things that they believe could help them grow their chances to appear as a perfect catch. According to the Harvard Business Review, a study confirmed that both male and female students newly admitted to an unnamed elite MBA program, showed different answers when told their responses would be viewed by career office than when told their responses would be viewed by their classmates. The single women downplayed their ambition and the element of leadership was understated on knowing that their responses will be viewed by their male counterparts. Shocking on how even super smart women are acting all gross out of fear of not ending up being alone!
There are countless reasons as to why not being yourself is a terrible idea, however, following listed reasons will make you think twice, why dumbing yourself down for a man is a bad - monstrously BAD idea.
There is a breed of women who go around fluttering their eyes and twirling their hair, doing all sorts of things that they believe could help them grow their chances to appear as a perfect catch. According to the Harvard Business Review, a study confirmed that both male and female students newly admitted to an unnamed elite MBA program, showed different answers when told their responses would be viewed by career office than when told their responses would be viewed by their classmates. The single women downplayed their ambition and the element of leadership was understated on knowing that their responses will be viewed by their male counterparts. Shocking on how even super smart women are acting all gross out of fear of not ending up being alone!
There are countless reasons as to why not being yourself is a terrible idea, however, following listed reasons will make you think twice, why dumbing yourself down for a man is a bad - monstrously BAD idea.
1. Stupid Is Neither Feminine Nor Cute:
Low IQ should be embarrassing for all of us. Stop thinking you are cuddly when you pretend like you don't know things that are known to even a fifth grader. All bets are off on you being feminine and cute when you are acting dumb.
2. Kill Your Chance To Attract An Alpha Male:
You got to be kidding me if you think an alpha male likes any of that you are trying to be. You might boost that jerk's ego who feeds on your stupidity though.
3. Losing A Lot of Stake:
Your career and your relationship are an altogether two different things. Don't opt for too much traveling and a leadership role, if you think you cannot manage other aspects of your life along side; NOT because he told you to or you will end up losing quite a lot - including your independence.
4. Pretense Never Works:
No matter how long you act up, someday you would want to break free and that is when the man of your dreams who chose you for you being docile, wouldn't be too happy.
5. Brainy Is The New Sexy:
May we take Michelle Obama or Amal Alammudin - one thing common in them is their brain power. Look at the men they are with and decide for yourself how being smart is pretty helpful.
6. It's Easy But It's Not Right:
Its very easy to act helpless and ignorant. However, its actually wrong to exploit others and make them believe into something which is not true.
Low IQ should be embarrassing for all of us. Stop thinking you are cuddly when you pretend like you don't know things that are known to even a fifth grader. All bets are off on you being feminine and cute when you are acting dumb.
2. Kill Your Chance To Attract An Alpha Male:
You got to be kidding me if you think an alpha male likes any of that you are trying to be. You might boost that jerk's ego who feeds on your stupidity though.
3. Losing A Lot of Stake:
Your career and your relationship are an altogether two different things. Don't opt for too much traveling and a leadership role, if you think you cannot manage other aspects of your life along side; NOT because he told you to or you will end up losing quite a lot - including your independence.
4. Pretense Never Works:
No matter how long you act up, someday you would want to break free and that is when the man of your dreams who chose you for you being docile, wouldn't be too happy.
5. Brainy Is The New Sexy:
May we take Michelle Obama or Amal Alammudin - one thing common in them is their brain power. Look at the men they are with and decide for yourself how being smart is pretty helpful.
6. It's Easy But It's Not Right:
Its very easy to act helpless and ignorant. However, its actually wrong to exploit others and make them believe into something which is not true.
7. Set A Better Example For Your Future Kids:
You sure don't want to have a daughter growing up to be someone with NO substance. Become the person you want your daughter to be.
Choose your own way, be your own brilliant self. Trust me, you are not intimidating the man who appreciates you as you are.
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You sure don't want to have a daughter growing up to be someone with NO substance. Become the person you want your daughter to be.
Choose your own way, be your own brilliant self. Trust me, you are not intimidating the man who appreciates you as you are.
About the Author: Believes in yourself!
Finally truth has been told
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