7 Signs He Is A Gentleman!

Men are from Mars and Gentlemen are Miracles from Heaven. Sounds like some exaggeration? Oh well, we all agree, in this day and age the whole idea of feminism is morphed into a belief system that has killed the very few basics. The basics that have been ubiquitously found, regardless of the cultural and geographic diversity, seem to gone away. Is that why we hear them saying gentlemen are a dying art? Picture is not as bleak though. They exist and are pretty much  obvious with how they behave around you or NOT around you.

Want to know if a miracle has happened to you? Lets find out that right below with these 7 traits of a true gentleman:

1. Honorable:

He is honest and righteous. This in turn makes him worthy of respect. May it be concerning his relationship with you or his business deal that he wants to seal for a major breakthrough - he will never twist things to his advantage. He will always fear of losing respect in anyone's eyes for the sake of some short term gain. So, if you catch him lying, or doing something wrong, even to others, (especially others) believe me he is not someone you can place your trust in. 

2. Respectful:

If he is not respectful, he is not respect worthy either. Closely see how he treats people who cannot benefit him or are below his social status. If he was rude to that server at the restaurant you went to with him but kisses up to his boss at work; he is not someone you would want to be with for a long time. 

3. Secure:

He is very secure and confident of himself and therefore he will always appreciate seeing you succeeding. He is never jealous or insecure about you doing great in life; infact he will take pride in you. Chiefly because he has faith in himself and his capabilities. 

4. Chivalry:

Offering a seat, holding the door, texting back without prolonged delays and many such small but significant acts determine how deeply etched this trait is in him. Be careful of the pretenders though!

5. Supportive:

He is never going to let you down in the hour of need. If you have turned up to him for something; he will ensure to meet your expectations. See for yourself if he props you up or brings you down when he has a choice to do both.

6. Real:

He is genuine and will never surprise you with different shades. Man of words but not of deeds should be pushed down to the bottom quartile of your priority list. Anyone can please you with what you want to hear and since you are pretty much auditory, you are very much inclined to goof up and make a wrong judgement call. 

7. Non-Judgmental:

He is never going to look down upon anyone as he does not consider him better than anyone. See him making fun of anyone and be assured he will do that to you down the lane as well. Do you want that kind of man?

He may be intelligent and good looking and fun to hang out with but if he lacks these basics and you are looking for a gentleman not just any man then step back and re-evaluate. 

Wishing you a miracle!

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