7 Signs of Highly Manipulative People!

There is manipulative and then there is highly manipulative. People falling in either of the category do not come with labels of ‘Warning’. They creep into your life and leave you with a big fat lesson to never get manipulated ever again.  Chances are you will come across many of them in life, however real catch is to know about them so in detail that you identify them, right before they worm their way into your beautiful life and mess it up. This is possible only when you know their major characteristics. Want to have a close look on who they are and what they do?

Here we go:

1. Mastered the Art of Lying:
Foremost and topping the list is lies. They are superb liars and excellent actors. They will lie to you so conveniently that you will not be able to differentiate between the truth and deception. All that what seems real is not real and what is real seems fake. Feeling dizzy already? Exactly, they are going to spin you in their web of lies without having a bit of worry about getting caught someday. They know how to make their way, even if they get caught. If you have spotted this ability - you either confront them or run for the hills!



2. Wear Several Masks:
They wear lots of masks and use each of them as per their convenience. You will have to figure them out by their level of hypocrisy. They don’t even know what their real side is as they are always pretending and acting to keep up with the situation and circumstances they are in. They will therefore end up taking full advantage of you if you can fuel their mission in any possible way.





3. Fake It Till They Make It:
They are best at faking UNTIL they make it. Really, brilliant performers they are. Beware of smooth talking and sugar coated words especially when they are getting something out of you or intend to get something out of you.





4. Will Come and Leave As Per Their Convenience:
They are not permanent. They will come into your life as and when they need you and they will leave as and when they get done with you. If you are NOT benefiting them; you are no longer required.



5. Blame You For Their Wrong Actions:
When they will be exposed, they will hold you responsible for all their wrong actions. Somehow they will make you feel as if it was all your fault and will end up making you feel bad especially after they wrong you.



6. Control Freaks:
They literally have the ability to control your every move and action. Once you are under their control, you will be toyed by them until they get bored of playing with you which they usually don’t.





7. Use and Discard:
They are not going to care about you once they make up their mind you are not of any further benefit to them. You will become a liability for them and they will find ways to get rid of you themselves. That’s the showdown. You will have the epiphany but till then you will be left either with one hand hanging down and other scratching your head on what really happened to you or you will be sitting there boiling your blood thinking on how they took advantage of you.






Beware of the big bad world sweet people!

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