7 Ways How a Bad Break Up Makes You Stronger!
Being broken up with by someone you let in your life is not easy. No one said it would be easy. Tears and sleepless nights followed by lots of bad feelings and anxiety attacks - its like someone has mercilessly pulled the rug from under your feet. Chucked you. Awww.
Feeling lost and deranged, not knowing what to do and how to get out of the situation, your life seems to take a halt. But. Wait. Stop. Right There. They say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Cliche? Well, true to the core.
Ladies and gentlemen, no matter how bad your break up was good news is higher the pain and sorrow, greater the strength and joy. Yes, a bad break up is directly proportional to your long term happiness. Have I been able to cheer the 'sad you' as yet? Let me further unfold you, the better you, that will lead you to someone better than who you have been crying for.
Follow me through these 07 magical points:
1. Knock-Out Theory:
There is too much of pain and sorrow. You are all by yourself. No kind words or cheering up is enough to make you feel better because you are clinging to your past like a life raft. Well and one fine day WHAM! (realization strikes). You don't want your past to come into your future. In the process, what you had become (miserable and weak) started to seem an ugly version of yourself and therefore you begin to discard your past. One by one, bit by bit, everything goes down the toilet. (emotions foremost) Congratulations! you have knocked out your worst enemy - your past.
2. You Find Yourself Standing On The New Starting Line:
Race is about to begin. Fresh beginning. Positive. Happy. Optimistic. You are in control of your mind and life both. You are about to begin the race. Your competition is you. You are giving yourself hardest of time to beat your own records. You are on fire. Like literally, dude!
3. You Are Emotionally Stable:
Ever since the drama gets over, you find yourself being emotionally stable and strong. No more worrying and no more anxiety. Your mind is a place for positive emotions only and you have become ultra strong to ward off anything negative coming your way. I'm bulletproof. Sing along?
4. You Love Yourself:
Gone are the days when someone else was the center of your universe. You realize the vim and power of being incharge of your own life. You are laser focused on your well-being. May it be spas or working out - self-pampering days have begun. Oh! you look incredibly pretty. (you find saying that to yourself) No kidding!
5. You Reconnect to Your Friends:
Friends who you have abandoned are back into your life. They have been there all along and have complained about being ignored. You realize they are not only your go-to peeps but also the ones who will not be overlooked at any given rate in the future.
6. You Are Productive:
Removing negativity and pretty much of anything thats bringing you down automatically cleanses your life and makes room for better things to do. You are not only busy but you are productive. This makes you an achiever. A high achiever.
7. You are Your Own Hero:
Yep! that phenomenally amazingly wonderful feeling when you consider yourself your own hero. Its you who has seen all of it and survived all of it. You are an uber-strong and independent person who doesn't need any savior as you are your own hero!
So, you still feel something really bad has happened that you have been dumped?
Well, you need to send them a thank you note for making you ready to be with someone as awesome as you are!
About the Author: Believes in herself!
Feeling lost and deranged, not knowing what to do and how to get out of the situation, your life seems to take a halt. But. Wait. Stop. Right There. They say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Cliche? Well, true to the core.
Ladies and gentlemen, no matter how bad your break up was good news is higher the pain and sorrow, greater the strength and joy. Yes, a bad break up is directly proportional to your long term happiness. Have I been able to cheer the 'sad you' as yet? Let me further unfold you, the better you, that will lead you to someone better than who you have been crying for.
Follow me through these 07 magical points:
1. Knock-Out Theory:
There is too much of pain and sorrow. You are all by yourself. No kind words or cheering up is enough to make you feel better because you are clinging to your past like a life raft. Well and one fine day WHAM! (realization strikes). You don't want your past to come into your future. In the process, what you had become (miserable and weak) started to seem an ugly version of yourself and therefore you begin to discard your past. One by one, bit by bit, everything goes down the toilet. (emotions foremost) Congratulations! you have knocked out your worst enemy - your past.
2. You Find Yourself Standing On The New Starting Line:
Race is about to begin. Fresh beginning. Positive. Happy. Optimistic. You are in control of your mind and life both. You are about to begin the race. Your competition is you. You are giving yourself hardest of time to beat your own records. You are on fire. Like literally, dude!
3. You Are Emotionally Stable:
Ever since the drama gets over, you find yourself being emotionally stable and strong. No more worrying and no more anxiety. Your mind is a place for positive emotions only and you have become ultra strong to ward off anything negative coming your way. I'm bulletproof. Sing along?
4. You Love Yourself:
Gone are the days when someone else was the center of your universe. You realize the vim and power of being incharge of your own life. You are laser focused on your well-being. May it be spas or working out - self-pampering days have begun. Oh! you look incredibly pretty. (you find saying that to yourself) No kidding!
5. You Reconnect to Your Friends:
Friends who you have abandoned are back into your life. They have been there all along and have complained about being ignored. You realize they are not only your go-to peeps but also the ones who will not be overlooked at any given rate in the future.
6. You Are Productive:
Removing negativity and pretty much of anything thats bringing you down automatically cleanses your life and makes room for better things to do. You are not only busy but you are productive. This makes you an achiever. A high achiever.
7. You are Your Own Hero:
Yep! that phenomenally amazingly wonderful feeling when you consider yourself your own hero. Its you who has seen all of it and survived all of it. You are an uber-strong and independent person who doesn't need any savior as you are your own hero!
So, you still feel something really bad has happened that you have been dumped?
Well, you need to send them a thank you note for making you ready to be with someone as awesome as you are!
About the Author: Believes in herself!
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